What it is like to be cheated upon in a relationship?

Quora link to the answer…

https://www.quora.com/What-it-is-like-to-be-cheated-upon-in-a-relationship/answer/Ankit-Vani-1

Alright, so this beta boy got “swindled” by his girlfriend of two years who backstabbed him and went on to marry another guy while (he says) she promised him she’d end up with him.

I have three words for betaboy…

kek kek kek

Alright, alright… here goes…

By this time, we had completed two years of our togetherness and were cruising very well for a future together.

Two years of blue balls, that is. It becomes evident later, but this betaboy wasn’t getting any.

One sudden day, a guy drops to see her, the same guy chosen by her parents to be her future partner.

So she was “with” betaboy Ankit Vani for two years, but she didn’t tell her family about it. And from the looks of things, she wasn’t getting her freak on with him either.

This is most likely an Indian girl we’re talking about. The kind that think about marriage and growing old together the minute you say “Hi”.

But somehow betaboy believes he was in a relationship.

Betaboy Ankit Vani… it was all fiction bro.

Displeased by this suddenness, she showed anger towards her parents for not informing her in advance and taking things forward without her consent. When asked, she told me that her mother has asked her to meet him as a friend and then they will deny their offer.

Well, Indians are fucked up. I got little else to add to that. heh

She met him, he was a pretty rich banker who was wealthy and showed up to be a good guy in front of her.

betaboy tell #2: Ankit Vani betaboy believes rich banker was pretending to be a good guy. In betaboy’s fantasy world, he’s the good guy, while the rich, good-looking, attractive man is actually the bad guy.

Their numbers got exchanged

And yet betaboy didn’t dump her immediately. That’s betaboy tell #3.

Gentlemen, if a girl’s is in love with you, she’ll go out of her way and everyone’s way to avoid exchanging numbers and so on. If she does, she really isn’t in love with you.

and then began the cheating part.

Only in betaboy’s mind.

She showed disinterest after meeting him, told bad things about him…

Assuming that’s even true… and that’s one hell of an assumption… what else would she do betaboy creep? Tell you how she’s planning her escape from your needy, clingy flatulence?

…and said that her parents are forcing her but she is strong.

Notice the inconsistencies in betaboy Ankit Vanti, SBI employee’s fictional re-imagination.

The same parents who told her at the outset that she could just see a guy and then politely indicate disinterest have suddenly become monsters who now force her daughter to bang for life a guy whom she dislikes.

What really happened is that either she tried to get rid of betaboy and he wouldn’t give up… or she tried to let him down politely but upon his boneheaded insistence, she decided to play him for shits and giggles.

They started chatting over texts…

Girls don’t chat unless they want to. Were her parents forcing her to chat with him too? lololol

…he was already floored down by her beauty and she seemed to have not liked that guy at all.

Here’s a tip for you betaboy Ankit Vani, SBI employee…

Girls are turned on by men who express their lust for them.

You were the creep talking about love and togetherness, and he was likely the strong, powerful man openly expressing how much harder (heh) life had gotten to be sleeping without her.

By this time, I had appeared in my SBI Mains and was waiting for my results. I cleared SBI Mains and was waiting for my interview dates. I went to Bhopal for my interview, came out of the room…

aka betaboy Ankit Vani was unemployed at that time.

…and called her since it went pretty well. I was hopeful of a selection and wanted to meet her since she was in the town.

Notice how she didn’t really suggest a meetup. betaboy Ankit Vani did.

Also, he had no one else to call. kek.

35 missed calls, 30 messages, 3 hours of wait and I left Bhopal with sadness wrapped over my face.

Super creep alert…

35 missed calls? 30 messages? All within 3 hours?

Dear Lord did the girl make a wise choice!!!

The last time I sent a dozen messages in a day was when a friend had been in an accident.

Gentlemen… don’t do this.

If you call someone, and they don’t respond immediately, go do something else. Don’t be like betaboy creeper Ankit Vani, SBI employee.

They’ll either call you back, or they won’t. Either way, once you hit the ball out of your court, don’t hit another one if they do nothing with the one you sent their way the first time.

Couple of days later, she revealed that she is getting married with the same guy.

Color me surprised.

</sarcasm>

She told me that she was pressurized by her family to do so and was swear in by her grandparents for this guy. I believed in her story, she kept on blabbering all the stories and I kept believing.

betaboy Ankit Vani, like all others of his ilk, fancies himself a hero of a romantic comedy, or better yet, romantic tragedy.

She told that she will break the alliance very soon, would reveal everything and I was kept hanging for few more days.

betaboys like Ankit Vani, SBI employee thrive on hope. That’s all they have anyway. They don’t have… like… options. Or choices. Or other things to do. So they linger. And languish. And wait. Hopefully.

More drama, verbal abuse and some well-crooked stories in coming days.

Dude, the message is the medium. Often.

In this case, she told you. Outright. She was going to marry the other man. You should have moved on. You didn’t. Because you had no other options. Because you’re a betaboy.

Then came the twist.

Notice betaboy’s penchant for dramatizing his life in hopes of portraying what is mundane as something that’s extraordinary.

betaboys live boring lives. Which is why they don’t have options. But that somehow doesn’t prevent them from becoming (the only) true believers in their own fantasies.

One fine day…

The love of your life is trapped by her very own parents and is being forced to marry someone else. Yet you have a fine day?

…I happened to visit her best friend’s bank for some personal work where she was employed and had no idea about our relationship at all. During conversation, it drifted towards my girlfriend and then she showed me something which swept away the floor beneath me, I still feel those nervy cramps in my body and a rush of anger and despondency crept in all over my face.

I’ll just disregard betaboy’s blatant disregard for the language of Shakespeare and Milton and chalk it up to his desiness. But SBI is fucked!!! And so are their customers.

She showed me a part of it, rest I took it on my own to know the truth. They had a WhatsApp group of three female friends and she was very happy about the marriage. In fact, she was taking a lot of interest in first night rituals, asking for suggestions on her apparels and fascinating about the gala wedding that was going to happen.

The girl was fantasizing about her “first night rituals”. In other words, she was a virgin. betaboy Ankit Vani wasn’t getting any.

That day, I found out that whatever she told me was a pure lie.

Maybe, and if so, I don’t blame her.

But chances are you totally misread her signals and misinterpreted her words and actions.

Their meeting was arranged after informing her in advance, her parents had met the guy and she had given her green signal to meet him. If this was not enough, she showed extreme interest in that guy and when she revealed things to me, it had already been a month.

Which I had seen coming right at the offset of your post betaboy.

The day I was informed about her decision to marry him, tickets, garden and everything was booked and I was foolishly swindled by her. Well, if that was not the end of it, she had spoken negatively about me in front of her friend and termed me as a guy who asked her out and she denied the offer at the outset.

I’d be hardpressed to disbelieve her.

Moral of the story:

Don’t be like betaboy Ankit Vani, SBI employee.

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4 thoughts on “What it is like to be cheated upon in a relationship?

  1. Now how about a little advice to the alpha american here? I came here to your blog, because I read an idiotic comment of yours on India & Indians on CH, which I usually frequent but I hardly ever post there. I clicked on your pseudonym and found you had a little blog of your own.

    English isnt my mothertongue, but before we start, let me just accept, white race is the best, whites built everything, as shown by their historic deeds, it is evident that they have got really good intentions for the entire world, but sadly they are just not good at maintaining this alphadom and end up getting cucked by the untermensch. Eg: British Empire then and UK getting banged today. [Untermensch pretty much includes everything thats not white.]. Now, that I have paid my tribute to the white overlord, we can start.

    *white power* [My a$$]

    Look, man. Before I found game, military, gym and guns, I was a betaboy and I am from India. Before I found Hindu right wing, I was a socialist teen. Multiculturism and whole nine yards. But then I left my teens and entered my 20s and a few experiences (a BPD ex) in my life red pilled me. I dont need the tag of alpha, but I pull enough tail to keep myself content. While you yourself stay in India, your disdain for us is pretty visible here. Ugly women? Sure. Look who is talking. I have been to USA and the kind of land whales that you have there my friend is just astonishing.

    ed: We’ve got land whales. But we’ve also got top class tail. You know it. The world knows it. Beauty is extremely rare in India. In America, not so much.

    The first time I saw one, I couldnt believe human body was capable to putting on so much lard. We also have very few women with notch counts going in two digits, three digits the uncle sam standard?

    ed: You seem to get all your info about American people from sitcoms and hollyweird. Been to any small towns lately? The story can be entirely different. Then again, do you guys even want to fuck your own women? More than half of them look like trannies, and pretty much 95% of them have soft, fat bellies. Just like your ‘men’.

    Forget it. Thats the american way of life. Hooorah! Race mixing and bastard babies = rare.

    ed: lol. You really don’t know your own history. Your people have been race-mixing for thousands of years. That’s how you got to be the way you are. How do you think *some* north indians got to have white skin?

    You and us. We are different. Why should we be measured by american standards? Why should we even care?

    ed: Why do you?

    What we want to be, is something we should decide. Not you.

    ed: What are you a fucking libtard?

    We dont see you as great as how you see yourself.

    ed: Last time I checked average American makes $55k. avg indian makes $700 yearly. You fucks are delusional to think you even compare.

    As for your post here, yes India is full of betaboys. Just like USA.

    ed: correction. Just like *some* in the US.

    But, unlike USA, India isnt on the brink of civil war bcoz its anitfa or left liberals are pushing for native genocide.

    ed: No. You just bend over and let your politicians fuck you. Just like you’ve bent over for the last millenium and let muslims, and other foreigners fuck you over.

    The kind of advice that you americans tend to give with your big mouths, you could pretty much use it on your own.

    Yes, white race had its peak but why do you assume this domination will hold on and last forever? What exactly is the basis of this weird copyright to fame and glory? You werent the leading power a thousand years ago. You were not even close to the dominant world order then. Last 500 years was your time and you had your run. You have made grave mistakes in last 100 years.

    ed: Sure. But we’ve also been the reason why the world has any infrastructure at all. HINT: I don’t need to learn your shitty language. You need to learn mine to get anywhere in the world.

    India was once great too,ed: Trolololol

    so was persia, so was greece. Its sphere of influence went far and beyond. But then came the thousand year war with Islam and by the time we finished it in 1800s, arrived the british. Today, we are back on the track, not even close to our past standard, but we are moving forward. Things have changed a lot for better since 1947.

    Which standard would that be? I live in one of your poshest areas… GK in Delhi. The markets here are ghost towns these days.

    Now let me ask you alpha-man? Can you the same about USA? Are you living under the same goldenage of 1970s to 1990s? If not ,why not? Howcome this race, loaded with alpha genes, the most superior, the most gifted, is not able to fight back a tiny and unarmed muslim invasion in europe? Is it bcoz the present generation talks too much and does too little? Perhaps too many keyboard warriors and way…..waaaaaaaaay too less action?

    ed: It’s our empathy that seems to be our Achilles’ heel. Something you wouldn’t understand. Luckily, you shitskins are all hell bent on waking us up.

    Things change. Change is the only constant thing in life. Considering the odds that it is facing, I would be surprised if white race even survives next 200 years. Whites couldnt even repel the middle eastern religion of (((christianity))) from dominating them and uprooting their own native faiths. Spare us from showcasing your Bragging rights, man.

    Enjoy your time in India and then get out.

    LOL: indian company’s paying me close to $50k a year right in New Delhi. When you curry monkeys are unable to get something done, you beg the White Man to come and save the day.

    We welcome guests, we dont have to welcome your kind. And hey, take your church missionaries with you. We dont give 2 fks about xtianity or islam.ed: Considering what I’ve observed, you wouldn’t give two fucks if I were to rape your sister and throw her on the street.

  2. “We’ve got land whales. But we’ve also got top class tail. You know it. The world knows it. Beauty is extremely rare in India. In America, not so much.”

    I dont think so. To my eyes, beauty is rare in USA. I could share statistics on obesity rate amongst american women but I leave this homework to you. Even when fit, most have horsey facial features with man jaws, broad shoulders and buck teeth. Comparing your top 1% to Indian bottom 10% is a usual logic that your kind uses. By the time, your women hit the wall, they are a ticking time bomb of feminism most likely to divorce rape your idiotic kind and leave them broke on the pavement. With some of my american friends, I have seen it happen with my own eyes. Divorce rates in India, arent even anywhere close to USA. Our family unit is intact, while your has been blown away by your cultural degradation.
    ——

    “You seem to get all your info about American people from sitcoms and hollyweird. Been to any small towns lately? The story can be entirely different. Then again, do you guys even want to fuck your own women? More than half of them look like trannies, and pretty much 95% of them have soft, fat bellies. Just like your ‘men’.”

    I have been to big cities like NYC , Los Angeles but I have also seen some areas of deep south as well. I still stick to what I said, finding a good girl over 18 in USA with a zero notch count is akin to winning a lottery. By the time she reaches 40, she has a thousand c*ck stare. You know exactly what I am talking about. Good luck denying this to yourself.
    —–

    “You really don’t know your own history. Your people have been race-mixing for thousands of years. That’s how you got to be the way you are. How do you think *some* north indians got to have white skin?”

    Its you who is clueless about anything beyond american borders. You are a typical clueless yank. You just found some red pill pages and game communities on internet and you think you know it all. I AM one of those fair skinned, broad shouldered, tall north Indians you are talking about. My ethnicity, like many in India, does not marry outside our caste. We have an entire regiment , over 18 battalions reserved for us in Indian army. 100% pure in composition. We have a great martial culture of fighting every single invader India has ever faced. India is multi racial, yet the prevalent caste system, keeps racial purity in check and has done it successfully for over 5000 years. Each race has its own beauty. From mountain dwelling gorkhas to plain dwelling jats to coastal vaish traders. You have no clue what you are talking about.
    —–

    “Last time I checked average American makes $55k. avg indian makes $700 yearly. You fucks are delusional to think you even compare.”

    India contributed 25% of global GDP before British arrival. Civilizations rise, fall and rise again. Rise again, IF they have their demography intact, which will never be the case with you. Post WW2, there was no economic competition left for USA. USA had a free run. It even moulded international trade laws to its will. Those days are over now. its a multi polar world and chinese have you by the balls. 17 Trillion dollar in debt and still counting. Each civilization faces peaks and declines. Your peak is over. Its done.

    Whites will be a minority in USA by 2040. If democracy is a game of numbers, then your numbers are pathetic. Even below population replacement level in EU and USA. How are you going to save it? By making blogs on internet, by commenting on CH? The numbers you have wont correct themselves even in next 100 years. And thats a long time, for your radical left / radical islam / 2% domination / immigrants to put the last nail in your coffin. What is coming back to you, is exactly what you did to native american tribals. This is the hindu concept of the cycle of Karma.
    —-

    “No. You just bend over and let your politicians fuck you.”

    Yup, as if this isnt the case with you. Im sure millions of illegal migrants to USA didnt come under political patronage. Latest islamic invasion of Europe, isnt backed by left wing politicians. Your 2% (((minority))), you can barely check their ethnic domination and like a clueless yank you run your stupid mouth here.
    —–

    “Just like you’ve bent over for the last millenium and let muslims, and other foreigners fuck you over.”

    India remains, the ONLY civilization in the world to survive genocidal islamic rule and islamic invasion. Even after 80 million hindus dead in 800 years, India never stopped fighting back. Look here whitey, can you even imagine having the stomach for going into a guerrilla war that lasts over 1000 generations? The odds that India has fought and lived to talk about, your kind cannot even dream surviving those odds. Your time of test is soon coming. 20 million muslims have entered Europe and couple this with your pathetic birth rates, what you are looking at is complete islamization before this century ends. I am betting by 2040, EU will be firmly under the grip of an alien and hostile minority which will ally with radical left and then my friend, it will be show time. You will roll over and accept islam, just like your cowardly ancestors rolled over and accepted foreign faith of christianity, abandoning their original pagan faiths.

    ed: is that why you shitheads keep raping your women with steel shafts?
    —-

    “It’s our empathy that seems to be our Achilles’ heel. Something you wouldn’t understand. Luckily, you shitskins are all hell bent on waking us up.”

    Hahahahaha…yeeeeaaaaaah, your empathy!! Awww….poor you. You showed a lot of empathy of native americans. British showed a lot of empathy to us. The way you colonized, plundered, looted and enslaved almost 25% of the world, that was empathy. Hahahahaha yeah right man.

    Yeah sure, you and your eternal empathy. Yeah and we Indians, are devoid of empathy. Hindus in last one thousand years have given refuge to each persecuted man who knocked on their doors for help. Jews from middle east (not one incident of anti-semitism in India till date), syrian christians, tibetans, afghans, zorastrian persians who fled islamization of persia. We have never colonized a single foreign land or looted their resources and we need a lecture from your kind? Who built their civilization on looted wealth and resources of other people? How hypocritical you are. After doing genocide to native american tribals, you preach ethics to the world. After building a war mongering state , you demand peace in your own state. After wiping out american tribals from their homeland, you cry hoarse on being turned into a minority in your present countries. Son, its you who doesnt understand how karma works. What goes around, comes around. It is just starting to come around. Man up and take it on the chin.

    —-

    “Why do you even care?”

    Yup, got to admit, i was wrong. I used to be fond of west, until I met people like you. Most of my favorite writers are americans of era gone by. I used to think, since communism and islam are global in nature. Perhaps, right wing all over the world, too should join hands in fighting together. But that isnt the case now. Your disdainful view of us, teaches us something really important. What is coming to you, isnt our war. In fact, it will do us more good and give us more room to grow, if we ally, with your deep states antifa and unleash it on you. If there isnt a hand of friendship that we receive from you, why should we even care. By dethroning you from the present global order, will we find our room to rise.

    ed: you showed your true colors here shitskin. we KNOW what you cheap shits think of us, and who your true allies are.

    “indian company’s paying me close to $50k a year right in New Delhi. When you curry monkeys are unable to get something done, you beg the White Man to come and save the day.”

    If you left your home country, to just earn 50K$ in India, then you are a fool. A blue collar worker in USA earns that amount in a year. You could have easily earned that same amount back home. Why even be here, when you hate us so much?

    ed: fortunately not for long. im leaving soon, and saying good riddance to this hell hole next week. enjoy your shitty cuntry 😉

    “Considering what I’ve observed, you wouldn’t give two fucks if I were to rape your sister and throw her on the street.”

    Step out of your Greater Kailash flat. Walk a little out. Find an Indian man who is your height/weight. Throw a punch, what watch happens next. Its you who will run to american embassy and not him. Why even look? I live barely ten minutes away from GK, put your phone number here and I will arrange an open knuckle one-on-one fight for you.

    ed: I would, but then your life, your existence, your points of view, your inane “observations”, your street-shitting cuntrymenn, and just about everything that’s got anything to do with you is so meaningless that thrashing your silly ass would be akin to lending your existence important. That I have no wish of doing.

  3. “is that why you shitheads keep raping your women with steel shafts?”

    That guy was a muslim. He was beaten to an inch of his life in jail by hindu prisoners. He was made to eat human excreta. Btw, rape statistics per 1000 of population, india is several times lower than USA. Not just USA, even western Europe. “muh white power”.

    —-

    “you showed your true colors here shitskin. we KNOW what you cheap shits think of us, and who your true allies are.”

    nah. let me guess, we are supposed to be friends with somebody who insults us? Right? Thousands of right wing hindus see american right wing in a positive light. I used to be one of them. Until I ran into people like you and now I wish more of hindus would see people like you and realize that we can never be friends. Thus, we should not even aspire to be. After all, what is american friendship? Is there anything even like that? Has it ever existed with any people in the world? Please, you dont have friends, you have convenient crooked allies, thats what you have. Russians are the people who make good friends. They might be poor but they are capable of upholding a promise like a man. Last 1971 war, thank god that Russia was backing India and america was backing Pakistan. We beat your crooked ally Pakistan like a dog in front of the world, occupied half of its territory and rubbed the nose of american fleet in bay of bengal with the russians. You bloodsuckers dont know friendship. All you know is underhand shady deals and fair weather hook ups.

    —–

    ” fortunately not for long. im leaving soon, and saying good riddance to this hell hole next week. enjoy your shitty cuntry ”

    Great! Return back to the ever dropping white population proportion in USA. Bitch, whine and moan about it on online forums, while you lack the guts to do anything about it. Enjoy the last remnants of american dream while it lasts , knowing well, that this slide downhill can never be reversed. By 2040, it will be time to be a minority in USA. Then, it will be show time! Karma will pay you a visit, for what your kind did to native americans in their homeland. Have fun.
    —-

    “I would, but then your life, your existence, your points of view, your inane “observations”, your street-shitting cuntrymenn, and just about everything that’s got anything to do with you is so meaningless that thrashing your silly ass would be akin to lending your existence important. That I have no wish of doing.”

    No you woudnt. It would have taken too much balls for your kind, to come out and fight in a foreign country. I had a nice little surprise planned for you. Finding a white man in a small area like GK isnt a big thing. How many white yanks even live there? We would have even given you a fair chance, let you choose your opponent in height/weight for a one on one bare knuckle fight, then the recording would have been on youtube and later posted on CH comment sections by me. Hell, you could have fought me! 5 foot 11, 90 kgs. I dont care even if you are 6 foot 4. There are only a few things more satisfying than shutting up a loudmouth yank, especially your kind.

    ed: why didn’t you? i was there for two over months after you knew. 😉

    But well, run back home. Find a yank nut case with a regular american notch count of 30+ and have fun smelling that cum dumpster. Thats the american way!

    ed: indian beauty in all its glory…

    heh. there’s a reason why we want nothing to have to do with you, and that burns your silly pretender heart to no end.

  4. “why didn’t you? i was there for two over months after you knew. ”

    I did invite you to put out your phone number. Its you who took a step backwards, not me. What kind of white nationalist steps back from a one-on-one fight? Perhaps the kind of white nationalist that barks online on stormfront forums and CH comments but has trouble stepping when the moment comes.

    ed: u bragged about having been able to find me in gk, raghead. i called you out on not having done that. and yes, not too many yt’s in that shithole y’all are so proud of.

    —-

    “heh. there’s a reason why we want nothing to have to do with you, and that burns your silly pretender heart to no end.”

    If you have some trouble putting some ‘bunz in the ovenz’ in america, you can always ask us. You can outsource the baby producing job to us. Perhaps Indian fertility can prop up the soy fed feminism infected dying civilization of that white suburbian nation. That would be as much fun as watching entire USA go down like detroit once whites go below total 50% of the population.

    ed: believe me fancy head, if that did somehow happen and we had to leave america, we’d conquer far better lands than ur 50 shades of shit cuntcurry.

    You know this in your bones whitey. You know whats coming. Hindu concept of Karma will apply on you. Crimes and genocides committed against Native americans are going to come back to haunt you. What this giant war mongering machine of yours has done around the world, that debt to humanity is yet to be paid and you will pay it. Nature and economics, together will make you pay through your nose.

    heh. like u did 300 years ago when one small english company tore apart your entire “nation”.

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